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		<title>Ruthlessly Eliminate Hurry</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2019 21:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rick Bergen</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[Two months ago I was speaking at a conference. As I spoke I realized my time was almost up. I mentally considered skipping to the end of my speech but the Powerpoint slides were all lined up and I couldn&#8217;t skip them. I decided to hurry through my next point about margins. I told the [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Two months ago I was speaking at a conference. As I spoke I realized my time was almost up. I mentally considered skipping to the end of my speech but the Powerpoint slides were all lined up and I couldn&#8217;t skip them. I decided to hurry through my next point about margins. I told the following story.<em>&nbsp;&#8220;A pastor arranged for a one-hour meeting with Dallas Willard, a theologian who has written books about spiritual formation. &#8216;My church is growing rapidly. We are in the middle of a huge building project. What do I have to do to care for my spiritual life. As the pastor of this growing group, this is very important to me.'&#8221;</em></p>



<p>Dallas Willard was quiet before he thoughtfully responded.<em>&nbsp;&#8220;You need to<strong>&nbsp;ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life.&#8221;</strong></em></p>



<p>The pastor quickly jotted that down in his notebook.&nbsp;<em>&#8220;OK.&nbsp;<strong>Ruthlessly eliminate hurry from my life.&nbsp;</strong>Got it. What else do I need to do? I only have one hour with you and I want to learn all I can.&#8221;</em></p>



<p>At this point the whole audience burst out with loud laughter. I was so surprised that I almost got derailed in my speech. Why was everyone laughing? Finally I started laughing too and we carried on.</p>



<p>Fast-forward two months: I was buying a  book on Amazon.com and I get an ad for a different book I might be interested in, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/0525653090/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+ruthless&amp;qid=1574891412&amp;sr=8-1"><strong>&#8220;The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry.&#8221;</strong> </a>Hey, how did Google know about that startling incident at the conference in Colorado? </p>



<p>John Mark&#8217;s church was growing by 1,000 people a year. After several years this got to be too much. Their church grew to six week-end services. John would get wiped out after preaching this many times in a row.</p>



<p><em>Home now, late dinner. Can’t sleep; that dead-tired-but-wired feeling. . . . On the couch, watching an obscure kung fu movie nobody’s ever heard of. Chinese, with subtitles. Keanu Reeves is the bad guy. Love Keanu. I sigh; lately, I’m ending most nights this way, on the couch, long after the family has gone to bed. Never been remotely into kung fu before; it makes me nervous. Is this the harbinger of mental illness on the horizon?&nbsp;</em>(Comer, J., 2019, p.2).</p>



<p>This book is easy to read, laced with humor, and it has some fun-sounding out-of-the-box ideas. For example, John now loves to celebrate the Sabbath with his wife and young children.</p>



<p><em>Even if the Sabbath is no longer a binding command, it’s still the grain of the universe. It’s a gift—and one I want to open and enjoy. Nine times out of ten, Sabbath is the best day of my week, no exaggeration. Every Friday night, after Sabbath dinner, we bake a giant cookie in a cast-iron pan, a full square foot of chocolate yumminess. Then we dump a carton of ice cream on the top, let it melt a little, and eat it all straight out of the pan—it’s some kind of symbolic nod to both our unity as a family and our collective love of sugar. As we indulge, we go around the table and share our highlight of the week (p. 173).</em></p>



<p>Even if you don&#8217;t struggle with binging on TV or sugar I am sure you will glean good ideas from this book.</p>



<p class="has-text-align-center"><br /> Reference<br />Comer, J. M., (2019) The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry (p. 2). The Crown Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.  </p>
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