Lucy looks into Tim’s eyes to find answers. “How are we doing?” “How do we feel about this?” “How do we respond to situations like this?”

Paul and Lucy are amazingly nonjudgmental and nonreactive at this stage of their lives. They take their cues from their parents and those who care for them. They are gathering data about how things work on Earth. 

Paul is still deciding if he wants to be a shepherd, which is scary. At the same time, his parents are happy, so it must be okay. Lucy is letting the situation play out more before forming an opinion.

Different, AND the Same. / Individuals AND Wearing the Team Shirt.

Paul and Lucy are taking in data and programming their brains to respond to situations later in life.