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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 03:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Here are some photos from the ferry ride over to Vancouver Island. I am in Victoria for a week-long course with the Justice Institute of BC.</div>
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<div>One of the things I like best about these courses on Conflict Management is that I feel God is pleased. &#8220;Blessed are the peacemakers for they will be called the sons of God.&#8221; Matthew 5:9</div>
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<div>Working with three nationalities, and with so many variations in each of us, I am often perplexed at how we can get hung up in a conflict. Now I am learning how we could have done things a little differently and we could have saved ourselves a lot of pain and time.</div>
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<div>Here are a few tidbits from the courses I am taking:</div>
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<div>&#8211; &#8220;Conflict resolution is not simple. It is an art. In these programs you will learn how to use some tools. Knowing how and when to use them is the art.&#8221;</div>
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<div>&#8211; &#8220;Whenever you find yourself arguing with someone it is very likely there is a power struggle going on.&#8221;</div>
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<div>&#8211; &#8220;People who feel powerless often act in the most bizarre ways, displaying anger, frustration, or silence, and then they often feel bad about it afterwards.&#8221;</div>
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<div>Personally, when I can help someone get past a stuck place in their life, I feel really good. And I think this goes back to my first idea. I think it is because God is pleased, and truly pleasing God makes anyone feel good. We are made for this.</div>
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